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Four[4] Things That Should Be Kept As A Secret In A Relationship

When one is in a relationship, there are some things that are not supposed to be discussed outside but rather should be kept as a secret between you and your partner. Intimate relationships are special because of the intimacy – a physical and emotional connection shared by two people, not three and certainly not any number of people. We have all been part of an intimate relationship discussion with our friends or people we trust before. However, it is important to note that not everything that happens in your relationship that must be shared with these groups of people. Rather share them with your partner.

Also, consider how you would feel if your partner discussed private, intimate matters with someone else.

Below are some Major Things To be Kept As Secret Within A Relationship

      Sex-related Matters

Discussing anything relating to sex (how often you do (or don’t) have sex, any sexual fantasies, problems in the bedroom) with your friends or a third party should be totally avoided.Its not a good thing to engage in conversation with someone else about your sexual life with your partner. And by so doing you stand a chance of safe guarding that relationship.

        Financial issues

It is important to understand that financial troubles within a relationship are very common. As much stress as it will be, try as much as possible to always see that the financial state of your relationship is secured,if need be pls try to discuss with your financial adviser.


It is highly rude of you to discuss your partner’s flaws with your friends or other people. No relationship is perfect and same thing goes to human beings. We are all imperfect and we should try and see that things are sorted out without a third party hearing about it.

Fights or heated arguments

Aside from altercations that involve physical or emotional abuse, relationship “fights” shouldn’t be discussed with others. Instead, discuss it with your partner when you both are calm and look for a solution. Remember no one is perfect.

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